What are eharmony icebreakers?

eharmony Icebreakers are one of several options to start chatting on eharmony without getting bogged down with small talk. If you’re not quite ready for a full-blown conversation, you can break the ice with this tool, which sends five pairs of photos to your match and asks them to choose their favorite from each pair. Once you’ve both made your choices, you can compare answers. Here’s how:

From your Home Page – if a match is on your Activity Feed, click on the match and go straight to the Messages tab
From within a match’s profile, click on the Send an Icebreaker icon just above the Inbox tab
From the Messages tab, click on the Icebreaker button in the messages window

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